Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Three Stages in Our Interaction with Money

Money Offers Survival
In the beginning of our lives, more possessions did indeed mean more fulfillment. Basic needs were met. We were fed. We were warm. We were sheltered. (pg. 24 from the book, Your Money or Your Life). The money to fulfillment relationship is very high. Each dollar quantitatively adds a lot of fulfillment to live in the survival stage.

Money Offers Comfort
When we went from bare necessities (food, clothing, shelter) to some amenities (toys, a wardrobe, a bicycle), the positive relationship between money and fulfillment became even more deeply embedded. (pg. 24) Once again, the money to fulfillment relationship is noticeable. Now the impact is less powerful than in the survival stage, but each dollar appears to add fulfillment.

Money Offers Luxuries
Eventually, we slipped beyond amenities and outright luxuries – and hardly registered the change. … we believed that money equals fulfillment so we barely noticed the curve [fulfillment] had started to level out. (pg. 23-24) In the luxury stage, the money to fulfillment relationship is lost. Dollars spent are no longer translating into experienced fulfillment. Out of frustration the person in luxury tries to purchase more expensive and exotic elements to recapture the fulfillment, but to no avail. Ultimately, the frustration leads to each dollar spent now bringing more grief and misery.

Reflecting on these three money stages, the authors suggest readers identify their “point of maximum fulfillment.” At what point does money stop offering fulfillment? What is one supposed to do once they have reached the point where there is no fulfillment in the relationship between money and fulfillment?

How Can Money Continue to Provide Fulfillment?
In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ ” (Acts 20:35 NIV)

Using the same lingo as Your Money or Your Life, we might say, “You receive more fulfillment with your money when you give it than when your spend it on yourself.”

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